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01:38

       Like it doesn't count? Are we truly who we are? Where exactly are we going? Life has become so crazy that people are doing crazy things to get crazy money. Just imagine 18years old girl dating (having sex with)  50years old Daddy.  A joke?  No, it's  reality, It's happening here and there.  But whose fault? Poverty or What?          

         The phenomenon of cross generational Sex has become so rampant, which we all see as a normal thing. The ideal of a relationship between an adolescent girl and a partner who is older (usually wealthier) than her has become a normal activities among girls of nowadays and this can be linked to many long life consequences.
     
       Girls, dating an old Man who is old enough to be your father should be a very irritating relationship to you but instead you sees it as the best way to enjoy life. And the money he will give in exchange of your Destiny has turned you to a fool that you couldn't find it has a big deal. Oh my God!!!  You are toying with your Destiny.

     Cross generational sex is a particular risk factor for an abusive relationship, in most cases the relationship become transactional. Girls how would you be dating your Father's mate and you still have the gut to call him SUGAR DADDY.  Oh my God!!! Sugar Daddy my foot. Like, what exactly do you want?  Can't you stay with your Man and enjoy your relationship in peace, work hard with him and have the best in all instead of trapping yourself into a premature sex with old for nothing,  so called sugar daddy who can make your life go astray which might take you years to build back.

   Let's assume you are so much comfortable with the money Sugar Daddy will give you, what of the Consequences? Are you also comfortable with them, adverse poverty and vulnerable cycle as you may become adolescent mother, along the line you may be forced to drop out from school and particularly are you not scared of STDs(Sexually transmitted Disease) Including HIV/AIDS. If care is not taken all these might lead to an everlasting sorrow for you . If you don't pity yourself, pity your FUTURE HUSBAND.

      Life is not what we really think it is, Poverty is not the cause of everything. Nobody will blame your Parents, Family or Friends, they will all blame you.  Who are your Cycle?  Where are you going?  What exactly do you want?  Remember it is your life and any choice you make today will reflect on your future. The choice is yours.



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12:03

Do you know Opinions does not define your Reality?

Do you know you fail only if you quit? 

Do you know Life is in a Circular motion, what goes around comes around?

Do you know you will attract people when you start fullfiling your destiny?

Do you know life is not how far but how well? 

Do you know the more you look the less you see?

Do you know the more you give the more you take? 

Do you know that the sagacity of man is not Garrulous?

Do you know positive thoughts create positive things? 

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11:47

                             
Do you know Opinions does not define your Reality?
Do you know you fail only if you quit? 
Do you know Life is in a Circular motion, what goes around comes around?
Do you know you will attract people when you start fullfiling your destiny?
Do you know life is not how far but how well? 
Do you know the more you look the less you see?
Do you know the more you give the more you take? 
Do you know that the sagacity of man is not Garrulous?
Do you know positive thoughts create positive things? 
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05:13
Money!!! 
Money is good 

And it is very good to have money
The poor are struggling to get money
The rich are working  for more money

But remember money can't buy Everything
Some people believe money can buy happiness
Some people  believe  money can buy  All they want

Fine! money can buy whatever you want
But it can never  buy Everything
Remember!!!
Money can buy love but not true love
Money can buy comfort but not Self Satisfaction 

Money can buy life but not Longlife
Money can buy beauty but not character
Money can buy grades but not Ticket to Heaven

Fine!!!
Money changes lives from extremely dull
To a Bright and sunny one
It makes everything  looks good
But money can't buy Everything

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02:47
           HOW MANY OF YOUR FRIENDS ARE READY TO HELP WHEN THE PUSH COME TO SURF? 

Friends
There are Real friends
There are fake friends
Your progress shows the real and fake friends
Because not all your  friends are in support of your Success

Friends
Fake friends are found everywhere but the Real friends are very rare
Disappear for a day
Then you will know who really cares about your success
Friends
Not all friends want your progress
Naturally some people hate success
Seeing their Friend progressing is a problem for them
While some friends can do anything just for you to succeed (Very few but Rare Friends)

To some people,
Their loyalty stops when you start progressing
They naturally go deaf and dumb when they hear you Succeeding

Friends
Having thousand friends is not the happiness
The joy is *How many are in support of your progress?

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15:29
Valentine Valentine Valentine!

Valentine's day is not restricted to a celebration between two people who are dating or in a relationship

Valentine's day is also celebrated with your friends, Family members or just anyone who is lucky to be loved by you.

Valentine is a  day of love that we are to shower love to our love ones and not a day for sexual arrasment or immorality

The obligatory exchange of roses, chocolate, dinners

Valentine day is the day you show to your spouse how truley you love him/her

Cards are exchanged by each other

73%of Men buy cards for their women while 27% of Women also do so

The day you give to your love the best amazing poem that sparks him/her

The day guys will ask different Ladies"Will you be my Val'?

The day ladies eat an unusual food that makes them dream about their future husband

     Happy valentine


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01:20

        There is nothing worse than people who treat you like you are replaceable

* Stop calling people who don't call you
* Stop visiting people who don't know where you live(Use your precious time for something productive) 

* Stop making time for people who don't have your time(Time is money, spend it wisely)
* Stop thinking about people who don't think about you because you will Only make yourself emotional bankrupt

* Treat people the way they treated you and stop forcing yourself on them by giving out love where it is not returned
* Surround yourself with people who genuinely love and care about you 

* Surround yourself with people who dont see you as an option .
* Respect everybody but fear nobody

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03:06
      True friends are like Gold, difficult to find but very painful when lost. In the journey of Friendship, never let Friends choose you instead choose and know your Friends.  You need to get this right, Friends who are not ready to help you in time of trouble are not your friends, they are Fake friends.

               Attributes of Good Friends
* Always ready to help you
* Always want to see your smiling face
* They will never pretend
* They will never find fault in you
* They give advice that will favour you
* They notice your mistakes and correct you with love
*  They will always be at your side even if they hear bad things about you
* They are always sincere
* They will always tell you the ugly truth
 THEY ARE YOUR REAL FRIENDS

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00:18
                  
              A friend in need is a friend indeed but not all friends can prove to you to be true friend because good friends are only known in time of sorrow. They are known when you have nothing and when you are totally down.  You can never know your real friends in time of enjoyment.
      You don't need to show how good, nice or perfect(vise versa) you are to your friends, your character will define who you are. Remember, character is like a flat tire that has nowhere to go until it is repair.
         Friends with these attributes are not your  friend:
 * They only smile with you when you are in good condition but they disappear in time of sorrow
 * They spend your money but you can never spend theirs
*  They always show up whenever they need your help
 * They give wrong advise that will favor them
 * They will never find solution to your problems but they are capable of worsen the problem
 * They always see your mistakes and find fault in you
 * They will never correct you when you are wrong instead they will say you are right
 * They are always correct whereas they are not
 * They always fake it to Make
Choose your Friend but never let Friends choose you because there are FRIENDS and there are REAL FRIENDS
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23:28
Success!!!
The opposite of failure
The fear of All
Success is define in many ways
With different definitions

To our believe,
Success is when you are successful in life
But being successful is not about financial aspect
Success is not all about having money, cars or companies

Success is define as;
The scaping through difficulties
Overcoming the hard time
Accomplishement of your heart desires

Don't think success can never be achieve
Anybody can achieve success
It is achieve only if you are willing to believe in being successful
Success can be achieve

To be successful in life
You need these 4P's and 2D's
Proper Planning Plus Prayers
Decision and Determination

Success Success Success
Success is not made on Platform of Gold
Work for it to achieve it
Success Success Success.
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08:28
              The fact that you Club every Friday night doesn't make you a Big Boy.  The fact that you've  been sleeping around  with thousand ladies like a dog doesn't make you a Big Boy.  For the that you uses all the latest material things doesn't make you a Big Boy. Listen!!! Big Boy is not about bleaching,  it is not about leaving bushy hair on your head...... Guys listen!!!  Big Boy is not about sagging with two dirty boxers 

      Smokers are liable to die young yet you never stop smoking, you releases smoke from your mouth like a burnt  firewood,  you never stop drinking like a drunkard, you drink as if breweries will finsh today and you call yourself Big Boy. Is that what you call Big Boy?  Listen!!!  If you want to be a Boy then be a Boy without sense and stop harassing  Big Boy. 
               WHO IS A BIG BOY? 
     "Big Boys are Men with Class and not Boys with Swag"
    Big boy is the one who think enough with his brain. His brain always work faster than his handwriting.  He's the one who think of consequences before action. He's the one that is always independent and Family/friends at times  look up to him. Big boy  doesn't  need crowd to be successful. 
       Big boy always work in silence,  he doesn't flirt around with ladies.  He's always faithful and loyal in relationship. You will always know him by what he does, he's behavior speaks lot about him. He's every Lady's  KING. Big Boy respect his value in Manhood, he carries himself with dignity  and he doesn't depend on friends for surviver.  
  Question: Are you a Boy or a Man?
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07:10
                 
              The fact that all the guys pick you up every friday night doesn't make you a big girl. The fact that you wear all the latest clothes in market doesn't make you a big girl. For the fact that you use latest phones, Ipad, iPhone, BlackBerry, Samsung Galax, and different men pay money to your account doesn't make you a big girl.
              The fact that you've entered almost all the biggest hotels in the city with different guys doesn't make you a big girl, It doesn't make you smart, you are just eating your future. The fact that you dress half naked and you wear clothes that expose your cleavages and makes you look sexy doesn't make you a big girl. You are just too CHEAP. At least if you  want to slay then Slay with sense.

                 
                       WHO IS A BIG GIRL
           A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, the girl that think consequences before action. She's not the one who flirt with all men around her. She's the one who respects her relationship and marriage ; SHE IS NEVER HEAR BUT SEEN.
           You will always know her by what she does, her behavior said alot about  her. She's every man's Queen, Decently dressed, always decent looking. A big girl respect her value in womanhood, she carries her self with more dignity. She doesn't depend on any guys for surviver

NOTE: Men will surely seek after you when you build yourself up into WOMAN,  Men will always want to take home to their parents not the ones they want to take to hotels and clubs
         You can be whatever you want to be without men's  support.  Just Be Focus,work hard and Pray With it.  Trust me ALL WILL BE WELL.

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