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01:38

       Like it doesn't count? Are we truly who we are? Where exactly are we going? Life has become so crazy that people are doing crazy things to get crazy money. Just imagine 18years old girl dating (having sex with)  50years old Daddy.  A joke?  No, it's  reality, It's happening here and there.  But whose fault? Poverty or What?          

         The phenomenon of cross generational Sex has become so rampant, which we all see as a normal thing. The ideal of a relationship between an adolescent girl and a partner who is older (usually wealthier) than her has become a normal activities among girls of nowadays and this can be linked to many long life consequences.
     
       Girls, dating an old Man who is old enough to be your father should be a very irritating relationship to you but instead you sees it as the best way to enjoy life. And the money he will give in exchange of your Destiny has turned you to a fool that you couldn't find it has a big deal. Oh my God!!!  You are toying with your Destiny.

     Cross generational sex is a particular risk factor for an abusive relationship, in most cases the relationship become transactional. Girls how would you be dating your Father's mate and you still have the gut to call him SUGAR DADDY.  Oh my God!!! Sugar Daddy my foot. Like, what exactly do you want?  Can't you stay with your Man and enjoy your relationship in peace, work hard with him and have the best in all instead of trapping yourself into a premature sex with old for nothing,  so called sugar daddy who can make your life go astray which might take you years to build back.

   Let's assume you are so much comfortable with the money Sugar Daddy will give you, what of the Consequences? Are you also comfortable with them, adverse poverty and vulnerable cycle as you may become adolescent mother, along the line you may be forced to drop out from school and particularly are you not scared of STDs(Sexually transmitted Disease) Including HIV/AIDS. If care is not taken all these might lead to an everlasting sorrow for you . If you don't pity yourself, pity your FUTURE HUSBAND.

      Life is not what we really think it is, Poverty is not the cause of everything. Nobody will blame your Parents, Family or Friends, they will all blame you.  Who are your Cycle?  Where are you going?  What exactly do you want?  Remember it is your life and any choice you make today will reflect on your future. The choice is yours.



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03:06
      True friends are like Gold, difficult to find but very painful when lost. In the journey of Friendship, never let Friends choose you instead choose and know your Friends.  You need to get this right, Friends who are not ready to help you in time of trouble are not your friends, they are Fake friends.

               Attributes of Good Friends
* Always ready to help you
* Always want to see your smiling face
* They will never pretend
* They will never find fault in you
* They give advice that will favour you
* They notice your mistakes and correct you with love
*  They will always be at your side even if they hear bad things about you
* They are always sincere
* They will always tell you the ugly truth
 THEY ARE YOUR REAL FRIENDS

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00:18
                  
              A friend in need is a friend indeed but not all friends can prove to you to be true friend because good friends are only known in time of sorrow. They are known when you have nothing and when you are totally down.  You can never know your real friends in time of enjoyment.
      You don't need to show how good, nice or perfect(vise versa) you are to your friends, your character will define who you are. Remember, character is like a flat tire that has nowhere to go until it is repair.
         Friends with these attributes are not your  friend:
 * They only smile with you when you are in good condition but they disappear in time of sorrow
 * They spend your money but you can never spend theirs
*  They always show up whenever they need your help
 * They give wrong advise that will favor them
 * They will never find solution to your problems but they are capable of worsen the problem
 * They always see your mistakes and find fault in you
 * They will never correct you when you are wrong instead they will say you are right
 * They are always correct whereas they are not
 * They always fake it to Make
Choose your Friend but never let Friends choose you because there are FRIENDS and there are REAL FRIENDS
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08:28
              The fact that you Club every Friday night doesn't make you a Big Boy.  The fact that you've  been sleeping around  with thousand ladies like a dog doesn't make you a Big Boy.  For the that you uses all the latest material things doesn't make you a Big Boy. Listen!!! Big Boy is not about bleaching,  it is not about leaving bushy hair on your head...... Guys listen!!!  Big Boy is not about sagging with two dirty boxers 

      Smokers are liable to die young yet you never stop smoking, you releases smoke from your mouth like a burnt  firewood,  you never stop drinking like a drunkard, you drink as if breweries will finsh today and you call yourself Big Boy. Is that what you call Big Boy?  Listen!!!  If you want to be a Boy then be a Boy without sense and stop harassing  Big Boy. 
               WHO IS A BIG BOY? 
     "Big Boys are Men with Class and not Boys with Swag"
    Big boy is the one who think enough with his brain. His brain always work faster than his handwriting.  He's the one who think of consequences before action. He's the one that is always independent and Family/friends at times  look up to him. Big boy  doesn't  need crowd to be successful. 
       Big boy always work in silence,  he doesn't flirt around with ladies.  He's always faithful and loyal in relationship. You will always know him by what he does, he's behavior speaks lot about him. He's every Lady's  KING. Big Boy respect his value in Manhood, he carries himself with dignity  and he doesn't depend on friends for surviver.  
  Question: Are you a Boy or a Man?
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01:30
 The ability of been uncertain about something or having difficult believe about something is called DOUBT
Doubt has killed many dreams, many dreams and visions has been buried all in the name of Doubt
Do you even think you can't make it again?
Or you think there is no future for you?
Do you think that your condition is permanent?
Or you think that your downfall is the end of life?
You need to know this and get the fact that"The biggest fear of success is DOUBT and not FAILURE remember Doubt kills dreams more than Failure does"

Success is not made on a platform of Gold, you need to kill the spirit of Doubt in you in order to give way for success
Make new things, make researches and believe in yourself even if you are not up to the standard.


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11:21
      The rate at which youths are seeking for job is historically higher than the available jobs. The question is "What are the causes of Youth unemployment"? I classify the causes into two, Causes by Government and Causes by individual. Although Government only play little roles in the cause of youth unemployment whereas individual play many roles. Below are some causes.
                            
        
         Lack of quality and relavance of Education. This is often consider as the first root cause of youth unemployment. It is seems and known that in a developed country the highest unemployment rate is among the people with primary Education or less, the level of your Education matters most when seeking for job.Average Education doesn't guarantee you good job rather make your educational line so high in order to get good job.Although the job might not be the best of your desire but to some extent it will be better than none. Half bread is better than none.

         Also dependency is considered to also be the cause of youth unemployment. As an Educated youth ,must you depend on Government for Job? So far you are Educated then you put together the method of production to produce something valuable. Gone are those days of White collar job, only a lazy youth with pride will sit at home waiting for white collar job when there are thousands of youth seeking for job. 

      As a youth forget about the statement "After school there is no work from Government" Why not engage yourself in some handiworks that can fetch you huge amount of money apart from white collar job? Handiworks like Fashion designing, Hairdressing, Catering, Barbing and many more, just be determine and focus on what to do. Remember this , Fashion designer that will Sow/design Mr A the driver's clothes will be different from the one that will sow Mr B the President clothes. The way you package and moderlise your work will be 80% different from an ordinary youth.

       
           Further more, lack of assistance from Government. If youths are really ready to work, are Government also ready to assist them to achieve their aims?, are they ready to give out loans for them to embark on their projects?. No assistance from Government has discourage some youths and this can lead to high rate of criminals, lack of innovation, poverty, death and can destroy our up coming generation.

  •  As a youth and nation let's put hand on deck and SAY NO TO YOUTH UNEMPLOYMENT.


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