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Oh Failure
The opposite of success
The fear of all

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Failing doesn't mean you are a failure
It only build you on a ground of success
Because Success is not made on a platform of Gold

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Life is not a bed of rose
If you don't fail
You won't know the value of success

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When you fail
Don't give up
Try again

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If you fail once
That doesn't mean you are a failure forever
Downfall of a man is not the end of life


*I failed in many subjects but my friend passed in all, now my friend works as an engineer in Microsoft but I owns the Microsoft*
                                                  *BILL GATES*

         The race to marry a BIG BOY is what's now in vogue. Most ladies these days can't function if there is no cash involved. Why? The urge for material things has changed the STORY OF LOVE.
   
       Never make money your only priority when choosing your spouse. There are more to marriage than money alone. A man with a good heart is better than a rich man with the heart of beast. Most women say they want security in life so they won't date a poor man! If he's not rich today doesn't mean he will be poor for life

        The happiness and security of your life is your responsibility. Those who choose never to endure at all may have to suffer for long. Getting married to the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life. HAPPINESS IS PRICELESS. Perhaps those who say they will rather cry inside a Mercedes benz, than laughing on a bicycle have never experienced pain in their life.

        Some relationship mistakes can cause life regret. WOMEN OF VIRTUE don't date for cash. They work hard and pray to GOD to make them rich and give them a good partner in life. IF IT DOESN'T COUNT, DON'T LOOSE THE COUNT. Many young women have blindly turned themselves to TEST DRIVE VEHICLES for the love of material things.

       Don't spoil your future today. What qualifies you as great woman is not in designer shoes and bags. It's in your good heart, good characters and real personality. When a real man finds a wife in you he will never let you go. It's funny how material women blame men for breaking their heart.

         A man who wins your love with cash may not stay for long. Real men don't settle down with fake women. THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND A FAKE WOMAN IS TEMPORARILY IN THE HEART OF A FOOLISH MAN, BUT WHEN THE FOOLISH BECOMES WISE, THAT PERSON IS IN SERIOUS PROBLEMS.

       Looking for a real man when you are fake is like LOOKING FOR A LIVE FISH IN THE FOREST, there is nothing in this life that is not a Risk

ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN.

                     By MYLES MUNROE 
                              in his Book titled                                              "Maximizing your potential".
*In life,
           Never let your comfort be greater than your passion: Where you are today is not your final destination, it is just a stepping stone to where you are going because you don't have to settle for little (Thinking that's your comfort zone) when you still have much ahead.

*In life,
            The thrill of flying always begin with the fear of falling: There is know success without sweat, to be successful in life is not by mouth because success is not made on a platform of gold.

*In life,
          What people see when they look at you is not who you truly are: There is a treasure in you which the eye have not seem and there ear have not heard(I call it Hidden potential). Your physical appearance, skin color, weight, height or shape are not the greatness in you because greatness is beyond what people see when they look at you.
    
 *In life,
                Don't be more concern to fit in where/when you ought to stand out: You are not needed everywhere for everything.



                      Mistakes
They are meant to be made
I am not perfect
I make mistakes
Powerful lessons are learnt
Just don't judge me

                    Mistakes
I know I can't be right all the time
But whenever I'm wrong
Tell me my mistakes
And not to others
Because they are to be corrected by me

                     Mistakes
A single mistake doesn't mean I'm wrong
It gives room for improvement
It teaches how to face fears
It teaches how to accept ourselves
Mistakes teaches how to take responsibilities

        Procrastination is a complex psychological behavior that affect everybody and it is related mostly to time management
        Procrastination often known exactly what you should be doing even if you can't do it. It happens to everyone in one way or the other and it should be put under control for It not to affect your lifestyle
        Mostly procrastination happens to students who are not willing to study. For example: A student might estimate that an examination might take only two days to write and you have some days left in order to read ahead, instead you are found playing with your time and due to your non challant attitude you wasted all you time and unable read.
      At this junction during the examination you might not be able to put something down because you have wasted your precious time doing nothing instead of reading. After the examination you will now realise you have loss alot of things which means you are not under control of time.
     Stop procastinating , procrastination is rewarded negatively and the behaviour will be repeated over and over again if you are not time conscious and through this you might loss valuable and precious things.
             "Say No To Procrastination"



      The rate at which youths are seeking for job is historically higher than the available jobs. The question is "What are the causes of Youth unemployment"? I classify the causes into two, Causes by Government and Causes by individual. Although Government only play little roles in the cause of youth unemployment whereas individual play many roles. Below are some causes.
                            
        
         Lack of quality and relavance of Education. This is often consider as the first root cause of youth unemployment. It is seems and known that in a developed country the highest unemployment rate is among the people with primary Education or less, the level of your Education matters most when seeking for job.Average Education doesn't guarantee you good job rather make your educational line so high in order to get good job.Although the job might not be the best of your desire but to some extent it will be better than none. Half bread is better than none.

         Also dependency is considered to also be the cause of youth unemployment. As an Educated youth ,must you depend on Government for Job? So far you are Educated then you put together the method of production to produce something valuable. Gone are those days of White collar job, only a lazy youth with pride will sit at home waiting for white collar job when there are thousands of youth seeking for job. 

      As a youth forget about the statement "After school there is no work from Government" Why not engage yourself in some handiworks that can fetch you huge amount of money apart from white collar job? Handiworks like Fashion designing, Hairdressing, Catering, Barbing and many more, just be determine and focus on what to do. Remember this , Fashion designer that will Sow/design Mr A the driver's clothes will be different from the one that will sow Mr B the President clothes. The way you package and moderlise your work will be 80% different from an ordinary youth.

       
           Further more, lack of assistance from Government. If youths are really ready to work, are Government also ready to assist them to achieve their aims?, are they ready to give out loans for them to embark on their projects?. No assistance from Government has discourage some youths and this can lead to high rate of criminals, lack of innovation, poverty, death and can destroy our up coming generation.

  •  As a youth and nation let's put hand on deck and SAY NO TO YOUTH UNEMPLOYMENT.


   Talent and skill are often used interchangeably during conversation, although they both works together but at the Same time they are different from each other.  Everybody posses certain skills and talents which makes them different from each other
      Talent is an inborn ability (NATURAL) while skill is a learn ability which needs a voluntary effort. You might be talented and not skillful but there is no way you can be skillful without been talented because talent is a gift from God given to everyone,just that it is an hidden ability which can only be visible by the help of Skill.

Skill is like an helper (Activator) to talent because skill need to refine raw talent into an active one.
Without Skill, talent is uselss

       Jealousy is a painful and an unpleasant emotional feelings that you feel when you think someone is trying to take what you have. According to ERICA SLOTTER "Jealousy is I have something that I think you want ,that I think you are coming after. Envy on the other hand seems to be the opposite of jealously which simply means "I want what you have.
         Jealousy is very good at times because it is good to get jealous of what is good with pure mind but when it's getting too much it hurt. A little jealousy in an healthy relationship is good because it implies your partner is afraid of losing you.
       
         Envy is a feeling that looks like a disease that if not get rid of ,it might get rid of you. If you are too Envious you might kill just to get what that you dont have. Also, if you are jealous of someone, you might hurt the person in order to take out from what the person has.What makes the different between Jealousy and Envy is that Jealousy Hurt while Envy Kills.
 
               As human beings ,we need not to be Jealous of each other nor Envy each other. If you need something that you don't have, work and pray for it rather than developing the spirit of Hatred which is caused by Jealousy  

        The Question "WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY" has destroyed many dreams. Care less about people and their words, reactions and thoughts. Forget about what will people say concerning you because if you care about it then you tends to go wrong path just to satisfy them and it is not possible to satisfy people. Take it or leave it"Some people will Love you while some will Hate you" that is very certain. Do you even realize that you are NOBODY to People if you have NOTHING but if you have SOMETHING you become SOMEBODY to them?


                 
          What will people say has killed many dreams, it has terminate many visions, some has misused their golden opportunity all in the name of What will People Say?. Just believe this, People talk behind you because they are not up to your standard. According to MYLES MUNROE he said "When you are doing nothing you are not a problem for people but the moment you start fulfilling destiny then you become notice and you attract people" Then people start giving different compliments about your success. For you to be great in life you have to think like SOMEBODY not like EVERYBODY and care less about WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY.

           It doesn't matter who you are in the community because at times nobody cares about your personality if you can't render help. Remember idea is useless unless you share it with people. it doesn't matter how rich you are in the society, if you can't give from the little you have then you have nothing. Remember Treasures that are hidden and locked up benefit no one.
             Create an heart of giving, not because you have more than enough but there are many people out there who need your help, some are out there dying of hunger, If you think life has done you bad, go out and check the number of people who has nothing that you are even better than.
                  Give from your heart and not for the sake of giving, give with a cheerful heart and not with a stony heart because Giving is from the heart. Fine! there are some who are willing to go but no capacity, what about those who have but they are not ready to give?  According to Myles Munroe he said"It doesn't matter what you accomplish, none of it will bring you satisfaction unless you give from what you have"

          Nobody knows tomorrow but we are all praying for a better Future. There is know way Fingers can be equal and everybody is not be born with a silver spoon, we are only working toward achieving the silver spoon.
         Never in life look down on anybody, if they are nothing today, tomorrow is sure and bright. It sound good if the Poor later become rich but it is very ridiculous for a rich to later be poor(Don't look down on people) because no one is beyond challenges.
     
       Respect people's opinion even if you won't go after it, Encourage those who are depressed with soft words, Give to those in needy even if it is little, build Future with them because some people needs you to be successful in life so that they can attach themselves to you in order to make there own success.

           Greatness is not measure by height nor weight, it is not measure by skin colur nor body shape, it is not measure by the level of your intelligence nor by fluent English. Greatness is measure by the level of your Donation.  For you to be great in life you must learn how to give from the little you have. (The more you give, the more you take).
           Do you think you are Great? or you think you have more than enough? but you can't give out of it, I'm glad to tell you  that you are not Great but you are only Famous. There is a clear difference between Great and Famous. Famous people give only for the sake of given, they will always want people to notice them whenever they render little help (Just for knowing sake) and they speaks a lot about money (Brag with money).
            Great people look into the eye of mean men with passion, they work in silence, they speak in silence, they give in silence (without knowing) and money speaks more about them. Great people never tells how great they are but famous people will always speak more than who they are. You don't need to announce how great you are,your impact on people, the level of your Donation and what is in you will announce your Greatness.

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